You Chose This Life

Or, at the very least, passively let it happen to you. And as a result, you’re probably feeling one (or more) of the following ways about one (or more) aspects of your life:

  • Unhappy

  • Unfulfilled

  • Unsure

  • Trapped/Stuck

  • Exhausted

  • Unmotivated

  • Hopeless

  • Dissatisfied

Don’t worry, though, it’s okay. You you can make the bold choice right now to start living the life you actually want to live.Through our work together, we’ll take you from living a “Fuck, no!” kind of life to a “Fuck, yeah!” kind of life.Take a few minutes to imagine that.Imagine yourself going from experiencing any or all of the feelings above, to instead feeling:

  • Happy

  • Fulfilled

  • Confident

  • Liberated

  • Invigorated

  • Motivated

  • Hopeful

  • Satisfied

How does that make you feel now? In this moment?Do you feel fired up and ready to go, or doubtful and apprehensive? Or maybe you even feel a mixture of fired up/ready to go and doubtful/apprehensive.Both are natural and completely normal.Change — even just the idea of it — can be exciting and scary as fuck. At the same time. But that’s how you know it’s a good thing (even if it doesn’t immediately feel like it).

"Growth can only happen within the space of discomfort."- John Vermaes

As your People Coach, I’ll work closely with you to through the doubt, apprehension, and discomfort to help you design and actualize the life you’ve always wanted (and maybe didn’t think you could ever have).But, the choice is yours.You can either leave now and go back to the drudgery of your current life and continue doing what you’ve been doing (which we both know hasn’t been working for you), or you can click here to take the first step towards building the life you know you deserve.Choose wisely.

Choosing to Change

Congratulations! You’ve made a wise choice, my friend.You chose to take the first step towards transforming your life from one that doesn’t bring you happiness or joy to one that fulfills and energizes you.It feels good, right? Well, hang on, because we’re just getting started!Hello! My name’s John, and I’m a Life Coach.My purpose is to help you make massive, consistent, and long-lasting changes in your life. I’ll work closely with you to help you discover, design, and create the life you’ve always wanted and desired that up ’til now seemed unattainable.So, how will we do that?We’ll do it by working together, 1:1, to identify the areas of your life that aren’t working for you or serving you anymore. We’ll ask the tough — and sometimes uncomfortable — questions, and really dig down deep to the root of the issues that have been keeping you stuck all these years.From there, once we’ve done the deep work, we’ll put a ‘Change Map‘ (i.e., action plan) together so you can start working towards actualizing your dream life.Now, this might seem a little too good to be true, right?Well, I wouldn’t be mad at you for thinking that.But here’s the thing you need to know and understand: Your transformation isn’t going to be passive or linear.It’s going to be iterative.And emotional.And exhausting.You’re going to experience a lot of ups and a lot of downs. It’s going to take commitment, hard work, and trust; not only to/in the coaching process itself, but to yourself and in your willingness to show up and do the work.It’s fucking scary, no doubt about it. Change and growth usually are.But you won’t be alone. My commitment to you, as a Life Coach and someone who’s done — and continues to do — the hard work, is to be by your side throughout the entire journey.Alright! Ready to jump in and get started? Click the button below to view my Coaching Packages and pick the one that works best for you.

The Coaching Process

The Coaching Process (At a Glance)

While the coaching experience is unique for all of my clients, the coaching process itself is pretty straightforward. Here’s what it looks like at a glance:

  1. You choose the Coaching Package that meets your needs.

  2. You complete the New Client Intake Form.

  3. You use my booking platform to schedule our initial call.

  4. We use the initial call to chat about what you hope or want to get out of our time working together.

For more detailed descriptions of the entire coaching process, keep scrolling.

The Coaching Packages / Financial Investment

My fees for 1:1 coaching start at $1,997 for my 3-month package and go up to $9,997 for my 12-month package, depending on the time-frame you choose to commit to.I understand my prices may seem steep to you, but keep in mind that when you hire a Life Coach, you’re investing in yourself, your future, and everything that goes along with that (e.g., your family, your friends, and your job/business).So, if my fees still feel steep knowing what you’re investing in, then I can tell you right now you’re not ready for coaching and you should come back here when you are ready to fully invest and commit.* Note: My fees are to be paid upfront and they are non-refundable.

The New Client Intake Form

Before we jump on a Zoom/Google Meet call, I’ll to ask you to complete the New Client Intake Form. The purpose of this form is two-fold — it’s partly for demographic purposes, but mostly it’s used as an inventory of sorts to help us determine exactly where you’re at right now versus where you want to be.The insight we’ll both gain from your answers to the questions on the form will give us a solid jumping off point for the time we’ll be spending together.

The "Pre-Session" Session

Our first session won’t be an official coaching session, but a 60 minute call that I refer to as the New Client Intake Session. The purpose of this initial session is to give us a chance to touch base, get to know each other a little bit, and discuss the answers you provided on the New Client Intake Form.

The (Actual) Coaching Sessions

Depending on the Coaching Package you choose, we’ll have anywhere from 6 to 48 sessions together (via Zoom or Google Meet). These sessions are where the magic will happen.During each session, we’ll dive deep into the issues or concerns you’re experiencing and/or struggling with so we can design and build the best plan to move you forward and closer to finally living the life you’ve always wanted.While the structure of our sessions aren’t written in stone, each session will have a general structure in place to ensure we stay on track:

  1. First ~10 Minutes: We’ll use this time to get a pre-session temperature check and do a brief review/recap of our previous session.

  2. Middle ~30 to 55 Minutes: We’ll use this time as you need to use this time. We can continue talking about an existing issue/struggle, we can talk about a new issue/struggle, or we can even just use the time to celebrate your recent wins.

  3. Last ~10 Minutes: We’ll use this time to get a post-session temperature check and do a brief review/recap of the session we just had (this is also where you’ll be given homework assignments).

Outside of our regular sessions, I’ll make myself available to you as best I can, within reason, should you need me for something. If absolutely necessary, we also have the option to schedule stand-alone sessions (for an additional fee).

Your Commitment

Coaching is all about you and the changes you want and/or need to make to improve your life; therefore, you and only you can do the work. Yes, I’ll be there alongside you the whole way, but I can’t do the work for you.This is the other part of the investment you need to be able to commit to — if you’re not willing to put in the time and effort or just don’t really want to, then I can again tell you that you’re not ready for coaching at this time.

My Commitment

I can’t guarantee you’ll get the exact results you’re hoping for, or even any results for that matter. The successes you’ll reap will all come down to how much effort you put into the process.

  1. Trust the process.

  2. Follow the process.

  3. Work the process.

Those are the rules to your success. Meanwhile, I commit to guiding you and being by your side the whole way through. And in doing that, I’ll treat you with the kindness and respect you deserve.Granted, I’ll ask some really difficult questions or say some harsh things — I tend to get to brass tacks in my coaching sessions — but it’s all for the betterment of you, and you alone.

The Coaching Packages

All 3 of the coaching packages listed below include an initial 60-minute introductory call. We’ll use those 60 minutes to set the stage, so to speak, for our time together. We’ll review your responses to the New Client Intake questionnaire, chat about where you are now versus where you want to be, and start formulating a plan for how we’re going to get you there.Click here for information about the coaching process itself.

Clarity Kickstart Package - $1,997 (3 Months)

Ideal for individuals seeking immediate clarity and actionable steps to resolve or address one to two specific concerns.

  • 6 Sessions - 6 x 75-minute sessions

  • Limited E-mail Support - Limited access to me via e-mail between sessions

  • Personalized Homework - Take-away activities to do between sessions (e.g., habit tracking, goal setting, worksheets, journaling)

Deep Dive Package - $4,997 (6 Months)

Ideal for individuals ready to explore deeper transformations in their personal and/or professional lives.

  • 24 Sessions - 24 x 50-minute sessions

  • Unlimited Support - Unlimited access to me via e-mail, Google Chat, or Signal Messenger between sessions

  • Personalized Homework - Take-away activities to do between sessions (e.g., habit tracking, goal setting, worksheets, journaling)

  • Community Membership - 6 months of FREE access to the Growth Experience Community (a $282 value)

Full Transformation Package - $9,997 (12 Months)

Ideal for individuals seeking a comprehensive overhaul of their life, habits, behaviors, and mindset.

  • 48 Sessions - 48 x 50-minute sessions

  • Unlimited Support - Unlimited access to me via e-mail, Google Chat, or Signal Messenger between sessions

  • Personalized Homework - Take-away activities to do between sessions (e.g., habit tracking, goal setting, worksheets, journaling)

  • Community Membership - 12 months of FREE access to the Growth Experience Community (a $564 value)

  • 24/7/365 AI Coaching - Chat with an AI version of me any time you want between sessions (a $924 value)

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